At times, an impression might be formed that healing occurs in a single session. The truth is that even if we are able to quickly reach the root cause of a problem, still in most cases healing is gradual. It often takes a person time to digest new information, to accept change willingly, to release habits and to integrate into one's life all the consequences a desired outcome may bring.
The following examples give an idea of how some problems may be resolved using a combined Theta & Recall Healing session. These case studies represent different kinds of problems and their solutions. From a challenge in finding an apartment that is linked to what happened during pregnancy, to an emotional challenge whose origin is in a previous lifetime, a tumor that is in fact a solution for an emotional trauma which never got resolved for the parents, problems with varicose veins which represent family history, an injury with metaphoric meaning and a feeling we usually try to avoid but in this case, it was absolutely vital.
Finding An Apartnmet
She came to see me because every year she was forced to move. By the time we met, she had moved 16 times already!
She was exhausted, upset wanted to establish a stable home for herself and a relationship.
Apparently this has nothing to do with her body or psyche or does it? Two main issues come up in our conversation.
Her mother went through an emergency Appendicitis surgery at which point it was discovered that she was pregnant. The fetus (my client) survives however this experience receives an unconscious meaning of: "my territory is invaded, my needs are not important, others are more important than me, It is unsafe at home (the womb), I need to disappear in order to survive", etc.
In reality, again and again her territory gets invaded. When she is little, mother and father are fighting and this strengthens once more the unconscious belief that "things could have been different if I could disappear". These concealed programs later contribute to eating disorders and she is hospitalized as a teenager with Anorexia. Her parents leave the home to be at the hospital with her where they envelop her with love. One of the unconscious messages is: "I receive love outside the home".
Can you see how layers of experiences & beliefs reinforce each other?
We clarify that her present intention is not only to find another apartment but to call in a house where she can feel at home and build her partnership. Often, just acknowledging the "real story" and its relevance to the phenomenon, changing some relevant beliefs, can bring about a new dynamic which allows movement and repair. After a few weeks, I received the following letter:
"I wish to thank you for the session. It opened doors for me and brought me to an amazing apartment!! The funny thing is that this apt. was available for me throughout this time but I never regarded it as an option. Tomorrow, I move and I feel like the happiest and most fortunate person. After I left your office, I oriented myself to finding and apartment where I can build healthy and stable relationship energy. A few days later, I was speaking with a friend (who also was looking) and she shared with me that her father offered her to move in with her parents.
Immediately it just hit me!
My parents have a huge apartment they are trying to rent for a few months with no success (I wonder why?). Every year when I am forced to move once again, my mother asks me to take it in order to make them and myself happy and every year I politely refuse with the claim that I want to be in Tel Aviv (The apt. is in Ramat Gan...). After the conversation and the opening of the penny (falling) casino, I went to visit my parents and asked them to take the apt. Of course, my mother got very excited. One more important detail is that I was born in this place and have many sweet memories the little girl in ,e wants to experience. Thanks so much to you and to all the magic you did with me. I am excited to start a new chapter in my life and it was important for me to share it with you. "
About the Test of Failure--An Egyptian Initiation
During her previous visit, this client intended to resolve obstacles and fears of practicing the healing profession. She says that she felt uplifted for many days; less fearful, more secure but then, after these obstacles seemingly disappeared, it was no longer what she wanted to do and now she is feeling gloomy.
I sense a sort of a bypass; something does not sit with me. I ask for clarity and my intuitive insight takes me to an experience from Ancient Egypt.
Does this resonate for you? I ask her.
"From the onset of my spiritual journey, I had the strongest attraction and great thirst to learn and read everything I could find on Ancient Egypt, and not only that but both of my parents were born there" she says.
So I guess we are on the right track.
We raise all kinds of possibilities but nothing feels right.
then I tune in again with her knowing field and suddenly I find myself present in a scene.
She is approaching a very significant initiation in the high priest temple. She fails.
After that failure, she declines. She becomes terrified of making a mistake, she fears being punished and ostracized. A great difficulty experienced till this day, to face authority.
But I receive astounding perspectives!
Actually, this initiation has already been at the highest level. As a matter of fact, the test had a hidden intention. She was failed on purpose and could not have succeeded. The real test was not the test itself but rather how will the initiate deal with the experience of FAILURE!!!
Yes. Deep breath.
Immediately I realize that this message is for me as well; for others...
Because through these high stages of initiation and in order to truly advance on their spiritual path, the initiates had to know that nothing is true but love.
The manner by which they faced the experience of failure, was the deciding factor whether they passed.
What is Failure? What meaning does it have? Who gave it this meaning? What will she do with the experience? What will she chose? separation and shame? or love and truth? This was and still is the real test.
We both felt the shivers. It was a defining moment.
Varicose Veins - The Return to Home
She comes because of years of inflammation called varicose veins. What is the role of veins? The return the blood back to the heart from all parts of the body. When there are varicose veins, it means that there is an excessive effort to "push" the blood toward the heart. The blood in GNM, symbolizes the family lineage therefore blood often has a connection to the family and the heart is its beating center. The veins are the ones that "gather" the "family" back to the "home".
We immediately find out that everything about her is related to "home" issues.
The childhood home was a scary place, the father had violent tendencies, he cheated on the mother and the client was afraid to return home. She did not have her own place because they lived in her grandfather's house. Her parents separated when she was very young, and the father cut off all communication with them. He also forced his entire family to cut off contact with them (the blood is also related to communication). There was a real rift in the family. In addition, the mother's family during the war, experienced uprooting, fleeing pogroms, difficulties adjusting to new circumstances and the need to establish a new home. She herself is a family therapist.
When did you start suffering from blood clots? After the first pregnancy, when she herself became a mother. When does it erupt? When there is disharmony at home; after a project she has been working on, was taken away from her, when she returned to her home country for a family event, etc.
We recognize the need to gather, bind, hold the family together; A desire for everyone to be under one roof. We "download" programs such as what it means to feel at home, that it is safe to be at home, to know that it is possible to build my own home, to create harmony at home, and also issues that were related to boundaries and taking to much responsibility and more.
The patient is in a therapeutic process with me, but already after the first two sessions, there was relief in the condition of the veins and later we discovered that there are also deeper issues of home that are related to her spiritual path.
Acute Knee Injury
She arrived limping due to a knee injury as a result of overexertion. Experiencing constant pain and difficulty functioning. Medical treatment did not help.
We find out that at exactly at the time of the injury, she leaves a workplace where she had experienced meteoric promotion but also abuse from her boss which had a negative impact on her. She moves to another workplace where she thrives. The knees represent for us on the one hand, movement forward while on the other hand, stability that prevents movement. Knees also have an association with submission, obedience and also the experience of lack of self-worth in relation to performance(!). In addition, there is a correlation between the knees and the kidneys which hold old grudges, unexpressed anger and a sense of helplessness.
We accessed feelings and thought forms related to low self-worth, we attended to her fear of conflict, We gave permission for the expression of repressed resentments and anger; It empowered her to release destructive energies, create more healthy boundaries, stand up for herself and more... Within two days there was a significant improvement and after a week she came to another appointment without pain and without limping.
Anger Can Save Life
Anger got a bad rap.
Regarded as the tool of the ego; something which needs to be controlled; to be managed; anger is harmful and at times, might be dangerous. I do not intend to challenge these statements but to open a window to a reality where anger is perhaps the last spark of life.
All humans have the need to be loved. Love is our life force.
I had the privilege of working with someone who was denied the right to love. He has lived since childhood in an arid desert without touch, without a sense of home or affection. It was a bit difficult to remain fully present in the face of anger, hostility, resentment and bitterness, but through the power of intuitive loving presence, I was able to connect to his inner world. If we understand that all behaviour is programmed for survival, it leaves the heart open to connect to the true person beyond their defences.
First, I got the feeling that I should just dip him in love. There was a lot of repressed anger. I was taken to a dark place and within it, I found a single spark of fire that managed to burn. It was the anger. I realized that sometimes when a person lives in a desert of love, the anger is the only fire left for him not to lose the desire to live. I stood before him with great humility and honored the living fire. Sometimes the fire needs to be fed before the absorption of love can be realized. Presence, inclusion and compassion are the key words in treatment.